It seems that the easiest way to attract love is to have love. It never fails whenever I get into a serious relationship and have a boyfriend it starts “raining men” that are infatuated with me and they are always so HOT, SEXY, and SUCCESSFUL! Since I’m the monogamist type I always have to brush them off. Yet, the attention makes me feel like a beautiful, desirable Goddess. Then, when I’m single and looking, not even the plain ones who are unemployed even seem to notice me! Lol! What gives?!
There has been a lot of hype around a new age idea known as the Law of Attraction. Like, if you’re a millionaire and already have a ton of money, more money will be attracted to you (even though you don’t need it). Also if you have a hot, sexy, M.D as a boyfriend you will attract more hot, successful men into your life. If you’re single, life has an uncanny way of turning the flow of men off!
Now, how the heck are you supposed to convince the Universe to turn the drought into a wild “El Nino” session? According to the LOA you have to trick it!!!
But seriously the teachings suggest that it starts with your mind and your thoughts. You must think positive, abundant thoughts and believe them to be true before you start seeing the effects in your life. One of the techniques is to visualize having a life with your (future) boyfriend in it and really feeling the love and believing it is real and doing this for at least 3 months. You might be asking, “Well, how the heck do I do that”?
Honestly, the BEST technique I’ve found is hypnosis. I know it seems a little bit out there so, for the moment think of a hypnosis session as really being a type of visualization session. The first portion of the session has you relax every muscle of your body and the second portion usually has you visualize a great love life and then uses positive affirmations to make your mind believe having a love life again is possible for you. It’s really a nice, positive process that helps you believe in love again!
It’s said that one must do this from anywhere from 21 days to 6 months. I did the hypnosis session every day for 4 months before I had results appear (aka found a boyfriend). Just remember to stick with it! Before you know it, it will be “raining men” again!